Thursday, March 22, 2007

Daily tip on success in your marriage

"All spouses have a dart gun at their disposal, and it is capable of deflating spirits, dreams, and motivation. This is the dart gun of criticism, which we can aim at others at will. Critical people drain energy, motivation, and joy from themselves and others. Intimate relationships can't thrive in a climate of criticism. In contrast, encouragement renews energy and increases motivation. An environment of encouragement opens up channels for creative problem-solving and adds joy to life. When spouses encourage each other, a win-win situation is created. Each feels supported by the other, and each is more likely to try harder in the marriage.

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